A single atom is tiny, so to make anything interesting, we need to join atoms together. Chemists call that "making bonds between atoms".
There are three ways of making bonds that you need to know; this activity will help you to learn about the first of them, which is called ionic bonding.
The first thing to remember is that all atoms are more stable if they have a stable outermost electron shell. Noble gases have this already, but most elements need to gain or lose electrons to become stable.
Elements which need to lose electrons are called metals, and elements which need to gain electrons are called non-metals.
If you react a metal with a non-metal, the metal can lose its unwanted electrons, and the non-metal can take those electrons to get the extra electrons it needs.
If you can imagine atoms being happy, both atoms would be happy. Because electrons have moved around, both atoms will become ions. Ions are charged atoms, where the number of protons isn't the same as the number of electrons.
The metal will have fewer electrons than before, so it will be a positively charged ion. The non-metal will have more electrons than before, so will be a negatively charged ion.
The Periodic Table Group tells you which ion will form:
For elements in the middle of the periodic table, it's a bit more complicated. The transition metals can form different ions (iron can become Fe2+ or Fe3+), and metalloids can behave as either metals or non-metals, depending on the exact situation.
This seems hard, but makes more sense with a real example. Sodium and chlorine react to make sodium chloride, which is the salt people put on food. Let's start with the electron structures of the atoms before the reaction:
Sodium has one electron too many, and chlorine has one electron too few. Moving one electron from the sodium atom to the chlorine atom makes both atoms into stable ions. The sodium has +1 charge (it's lost one negatively charged electron), and the chlorine has -1 charge (it's gained one negatively charged electron). The chlorine atom gets a new name; we call it a chloride ion.
You can write these processes as a pair of ionic equations:
Na - e- → Na+ (sodium atom loses an electron to make a positive sodium ion)
Cl + e- → Cl- (chlorine atom gains an electron to make a negative chloride ion)
Because the ions have opposite charges, they will be attracted to each other by electrostatic forces. That's why we talk about ionic bonding- the bond is an electrical force between different ions.
Each positive ion attracts negative ions in all directions, so you get a repeating pattern which only stops when you run out of atoms. Ionic compounds have high melting and boiling points because it needs a lot of energy to break the ionic bonds.
If the ions can move, an ionic compound can conduct electricity- this happens in liquids (melts or solutions) but not solids.
We can show the way that electrons move to change atoms into ions using a dot and cross diagram. To see this, let's think about magnesium and chlorine reacting to make magnesium chloride.
Step 1: Draw the electron structure for the two elements you are reacting.
Magnesium has two electrons in its outermost shell, which it needs to lose. Chlorine has one empty slot in its outermost shell, which it needs to fill. In number form, the electron structure of Mg is 2.8.2 and Cl is 2.8.7.
Step 2: Decide how many atoms you need of each element.
If each magnesium is losing two electrons, and each chlorine will only take one more, we need two chorines for each magnesium.
(If we take another example, sodium nitride is Na3N. Nitrogen needs to gain 3 electrons, and sodium needs to lose 1 electron. That means we need electrons from three sodium atoms to complete the outer shell for one nitrogen atom.)
Step 3: Redraw the electron structures, showing the transferred electrons.
Don't try and edit your initial diagrams; you will end up with a confusing mess.
Step 4: Put square brackets round the ions, and record their charges
The magnesium is Mg2+ (it's lost two electrons) and each chlorine is Cl- (each chlorine gains one electron).
And that's it! Remember that ionic bonding happens between metals and non-metals, and works because the metal loses electrons, the non-metal gains electrons, and both atoms are more stable that way.